What the actual fuck?!?!
Today has been so WEIRD!
First thing this morning, I get into a fight with the soon-to-be. He told me that he WASN’T going to give me half of the tax return now… he would be keeping all $3500 for himself. Um, no.
So, I had to get to the bottom of it. I ended up calling two of my girlfriends from down South where he lives. I got them to tell me pretty much everything about his life at the moment— his girlfriend in San Diego, his new white motorcycle, where he’s living, his new projects, what he’ll be doing for the next two weeks. Everything. What? I needed leverage.
I finally got to talk to him on the phone, when we got into a screaming match so loud that the horse trainer turned her radio down in the barn so she could hear us fight. Great. Hahah… I don’t really care. It’s just that I really need that money. I want it. It’s mine. I’m entitled to it. I’m not going to let him walk all over me any more than I already have!!! NO WAY!
So, I used all of that leverage, plus the fact that I am going to call his commanding officer. He didn’t like it one bit— nope. He’s freaking out. Especially when he heard the words “garnish your wages.”
In the end, he did give me the money, though. He transferred it electronically right into my account. Thank goodness! It’s not like I’m hard up or anything, it’s just that it’s mine.
I’m still going to talk to his commanding officer, though. I’m really afraid for his state of mental health. He’s not doing very well at all… I’m worried that he’s going to do something rash. Just today he threatened harm on himself.
This has gotten so serious. I never thought it’d be happening like this.
Still, between all of my conversations with him, I found enough time to have a nice day of shopping with my Aunt and Gram. I got a new pair of really cute MissMe jeans and two new Lucky Brand shirts. I love them!
Really? My priorities are clearly in order.
Well, I guess life can’t be all bad…
I’m going to have to get really busy tomorrow on my house. It’s high time that I tore this place apart and cleaned it from top to bottom. I’ve got five loads of laundry to put away, to change the sheets, dusting, and my bathroom could use some freshening up. The calcium in the water here makes everything look more dirty than it already is!
Instead of doing all that tonight, my friends and I are having a mid-week meet up. We’re going to host a little going away party for “The Llama’s” (Sister’s boyfriend) going away party. He’ll be training in Missouri for two weeks. Really, it’s just an excuse to get together and have cocktails! I’m excited!
So, I guess I better go. I’m debating on taking another shower, though. I feel like I need to wash all of this “bad juju” off of me.